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# Sunday, December 28, 2008
Author: Katia Loisel-Furey


New research suggests another approach may work better, writes Katia Loisel-Furey co-author of How to get the man you want & How to get the woman you want.

Should Women Play Hard To Get?

You’re sitting at the bar wearing your sexiest little black dress and winner smile, scanning the room nervously for ‘Mr. Right’. From across the crowded room you see him, immaculately dressed, an air of confidence surrounding him like a veil. A sexy smile dances on his lips as his eyes lock with yours, and for that split second you feel as though you’re the only two people in the room.

Blood rushes to your face like a tidal wave and you quickly look away to compose yourself. As you turn back for a second look, dress hitched up a notch and loaded with your best Angelina Jolie pout, a niggling thought stops you dead in your tracks.

If men are the hunter and prefer the thrill of the chase, shouldn’t we play hard to get?

How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams

If the world of dating wasn’t confusing enough, every time we turn on the TV or read a magazine we get different advice. So how does a single woman attract the man of her dreams?

A global study ‘Real People, Real Answers, Real Stories’ found that over 50% of men wouldn’t approach a woman if there was no sign of interest from them and that fear of rejection was the main reason they wouldn’t approach. In reality most men would rather do twenty rounds in a boxing ring than risk being rejected by you.

Selective Difficulty

Scientists have suggested that we favour ‘selective difficulty’. We’re attracted to people who play hard to get for everyone, except us, with 96% of men preferring the direct approach.

The theory of ‘selective difficulty’ was tested using a version of online dating. Three women were given their online matches. One was keen to meet all of her dates, the second played hard to get and rejected all the men and the third showed interest in only one man. 100% of the male participants in the study preferred the woman that was only interested in them.

Give the Myth the Flick

If you’re looking for ‘Mr Right’ and not a player who’s only after another notch in his belt, it’s time to give the dating myth of playing hard to get the flick.

Next time your eyes meet his, give him a cheeky grin and a loaded look that says “come hither”, count to four before looking away, then look back and watch as he makes a beeline in your direction.

To find out more about Katia’s new book How to get the man you want and How to get the woman you want Real People – Real Answers, Flirting, dating, sex and love, what men and women really want visit or

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Katia Loisel-Furey is an international flirting, dating and body language expert and co-author of the blockbuster 2 sided book How to get the man you want & How to get the woman you want. Real People – Real Answers, Flirting, Dating, Sex and Love – What men and women really want.

She is also a TV presenter who has worked with tens of thousands of singles and couples in Australia and overseas. Katia has featured as a dating expert on TV shows such as 9am with David and Kim, The Morning Show, Today Tonight, A Current Affair, Sunday and Postcards and many radio shows. She receives
hundreds of letters from readers and advises them on body language, relationships and the world of dating. She regularly contributes to the weekly MX Magazine and has featured in Cosmo, RALPH, FHM, Dolly, Marie Claire and Good Health and Medicine.

Katia, in collaboration with Paul Morris Segal and Inna Segal has conducted a five year global study, ‘Real People - Real Answers,’ concerning the dating and mating patterns of over 1500 singles to find out the truth about what men and women want when it comes to flirting, dating, sex and love.

Katia was born in France and now lives in Australia with her husband Greg and son Aiden.

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# Sunday, December 21, 2008
Author: Tonja Weimer

How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You noticed him when you were standing and talking with a friend. You think he noticed you, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. He looked at you at about the same time you saw him. Your eyes met for just a few seconds, and then you looked away. When you looked back up, he was talking with some other people. Was he watching you as you mingled? Or were you making that up? How can you tell if a guy likes you? Why are guys so hard to read?

Here are five signs that he is interested in you too. If any of the following happens, he is probably trying to get close enough to ask you out:

1. He tells someone

Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you're from. He is trying to act like he's "just asking" but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He's hoping it does.

2. The look

He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, "that look" he has says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. You think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.

3. The conversation

Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to you, to ask you questions, he is interested. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He's moving in to the ultimate question, which is: "Are you seeing anyone." He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is "No." Never ever wear a ring in public. When a guy is across the room, he cannot tell which finger it is on and he may assume incorrectly that you are taken. If he doesn't ask you the question of whether or not you are attached, he may ask someone whom you both know.

4. He appears unexpectedly

He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you are going and at what time. His face may turn red when he sees you. A sudden, "Oh, hi," is his way of saying, "I don't want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you." If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.

5. EVERYONE likes you

Is he interested? When you are well liked and a happy person, why wouldn't he like you? Of course he does. If you don't have a great life, however, now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your career possibilities, body image, future, plans, and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it won't matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents fade away. School and training do not.

These are the five signs that he is interested and he is on the verge of asking you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is where relationships begin.

Do you want to know more secrets about how to attract men? Do you know how to dress, what to say, what to do, and the body language to use when you go out? Do you know the 5 steps to take to meet any guy anywhere? Read on to discover all the secrets to having all the dates you want in How To Attract Men: Secrets Every Woman Should Know

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Visit for more tips, skills, and insight on dating, relationships, singles, and love. Subscribe to our F*ree Savvy Dating Newsletter from master single's coach, life coach, and syndicated columnist, Tonja Weimer. Copyright 2006, Tonja Weimer. (Please note source if reprinting this article.)

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# Sunday, December 14, 2008
Author: Jenny Willston

There are million of single people online who registered their personals ads at online dating sites. Looking for love and romance online have been popular these days in America and other countries including Canada, UK, Australia, Eastern, Western, Asian, and etc. Single men online create their profile to seek for single women, and vice versa. It is common to see single people meet each other on the Internet. There are many dating sites to help singles to find their partners. Single men and women need to create a personals ad to find love and romance on net. Seeking for relationship and marriage is easy as 1, 2, and 3. Paid dating services charge their members a small fee for using the service. Free singles services do not charge their members any fee for using the service. However, free singles sites usually have some ads from advertisers on their sites.

Single men and women are people who have never been married before or who got divorced. Single women and men are free and available for a new relationship in their life. Some singles are busy with their life so they do not have time to go to other places to seek for a date. These places may be expensive or inappropriate with them. They join online dating to look for a date. In fact, online singles service saves time and money for singles. There are million of singles who join these sites. You can search for single men or women online at a popular singles service, there are million of single people showing up in your local area. Your companion is waiting online for you. Staying single is lonely and not fun. You need to find someone to share your life with. So, free online singles service is the solution for you.

Single men and women online should not post too personal information on your profile, such as credit card information, home phone number, banking account, and others. It is not good to post your financial information on the website. After you have found a dream mate, you then can tell about that. It is just too early to disclose such personal information about yourself. Looking for single people online at free singles sites is easy and simple. It does not cost singles any fee when using the free singles services. Finding a companion online is common these days. You can find your dating mate at your computer. There is no reason to wait. Single people meet each other online has been increasing rapidly in the last few years.

Looking for single people on the Internet has never been easier. You just need to post your profile and the dating system does the rest for you. It is suggested that single people should join free singles services because you do not pay for the service. There are million of single people waiting online to meet their partners. You can meet your compatible partner for just a few clicks from your computer. You need to take an action now by joining the totally free singles sites to find your other half today.

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# Sunday, December 7, 2008
Author: Teecee Go

When you're in a relationship with a man there's always one question that is in the front of your mind. That question of course is whether he's in love with you. Not all men are good at communication so sometimes it’s difficult for women to know exactly what their men are thinking. There are signs that you can recognize, even if he's not expressing them very clearly.

The most obvious signs that he's in love with you is the amount of time he spends with you. He'll find any reason he can to see you. Even if it's for only a few minutes and he’s had a long hard day at work, he'll still make the time. Or if he often texts, calls or emails you, that is another sure sign he’s thinking about you.

Men by nature enjoy looking at beautiful women for it’s in their blood. But at this moment his attention will be focused mainly on you with the only occasional glance at another woman. He'll find the opportunity to meet and see you more often when he's in love with you.

If he always wants to hold your hand or kiss you that’s a sure sign that he's falling deeper in love with you. Some men are not as comfortable showing their affection in public however, you may notice him reaching for your hand more often. He'll also want to pamper you if you give him the chance. He may start to ask if you've eaten dinner yet or if you need anything when he calls. This shows he is concerned for your well being.

Inviting you to dinner at his parents or siblings home is another sign he’s falling in love with you. This is a very common and often waited for event in a relationship. If he starts talking about where he sees himself in a few years and if he suggests how great it would be to have children with you, this is sure sign from your man that he's in love with you!

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# Monday, December 1, 2008
Author: Teecee Go

Being attractive is the main reason that draws the men in but it is not the reason that will keep them around. There are many reasons that make a man fall out of love. What are the things that will make men fall out of love even if the women look great? The reason could be anything small from constant fighting, show no affection, nagging, drama queens and the obvious one reason psycho queen.

The following are five things you need to consider to avoid your man falling out of love with you.

(1) Always Be Yourself

Don't pretend to be someone that you are not. Sooner or later you are going to get sick of being someone you’re not and it will start to wear on your nerves. Many women pretend to enjoy things they have NO interest in at all. Some women even lie about their past to impress the man. After he falls in love with you, you get tired of being someone you’re not problems will start to arise in the relationship. Then you have a lot of explaining to do and the relationship start to suffer.

(2) Don’t Be or Play a Needy Woman

If your man is full of self-confidence and you’re not. If he can’t accept you for who you are then he isn’t worth having anyway. If you are in fact needy, seek some help so you can be independent and have an equal relationship.

(3) Spend as Much Time Listening as You Do Talking

A relationship is about two people not one, you have to be willing to listen and share as well as try new things. If he enjoys fishing then give it a try and if you enjoy the opera have him join you. A relationship is a partnership both people need to be willing to give a little. If you stopped making time for each other and make your man feel you don't enjoy his company then someone else will. You need to work on the relationship before your man fall out of love with you.

(4) Money is a Huge Relationship Destroyer

If you live together you need a household budget and you have to equally split the bills. Don’t waste money on $300 shoes if the dishwasher needs repairs. Be responsible.

(5) No Games! Don’t Play Mind Games with Him

If you’re a jealous type find a way to trust him. He is not your ex boyfriend or the guy who cheated on you in 11th grade. Trust him. If he says he loves you then trust him what he say. Trust me; men will appreciate it if you put trust in him.

These are just the top 5 things that will make a man fall out of love with you and there are several more. Just be yourself, don’t expect more from him than he is able to give you or more than your willing to give him!

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